Family Stress

WHAT A GREAT DAY TO BE ALIVE. IM EXCITED TO TALK ABOUT THIS TOPIC FAMILY STRESS. FAMILY STRESS CAN BE CREATED IN MAY DIFFERENT WAYS.SUCH AS NOT KNOWING WHAT TO DO WHEN UPCOMING PROBLEMS SUCH AS MONEY, WORK, ISSUE WITH FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIP WITH SIBLINGS.ONCE UPON A TIME I HAVED EXPERIENCE FAMILY STRESS FAMILY ASKING FOE MONEY. HOWEVER KNOWING IM A COLLEGE STUDENT THEY ASKED FOR LARGE AMOUNT OF MONEY AND IT PUT ME UNDER STRESS NOT KNOWING HOW TO MOVE FORWARD WITH IT. THAT’S AN EXPERIENCE THAT CAN MAKE YOU HAVE MIXED FEELINGS BECAUSE YOU WOULD WANT TO HELP THEM BUT DO YOU HAVE IT TO HELP. NOW YOUR IN THIS POSITION WHERE YOU HAVE TO EXPLAIN TO THEM HOW YOU CANT HELP. YOU LOVE OTHERS AN WANT TO DO ANYTHING TO PUTN THEM IN A GREAT POSITION NO MATTER WHAT. WELL I HAD TO KEEP IN MIND THE TYPE OF PEOPLE THEY WAS KNOWING THAT THEIR REACTION MIGHT NOT BE WHAT YOU EXPECT OR DO BUT EITHER WAY WE SHOULD GO WITH OUR MOVE. WHAT IM EXPLAINING IS THAT IT CREATES A TOUGH SITUATION AN IT CREATES STRESS TOWARDS ONE ANOTHER WITHIN A COUPLE FAMILY OR ETC. ALSO WHAT CAN CREATE FAMILY STRESS IS TOO MUCH TO DO IN A VERY SHORT PERIOD OF TIME. HAVE ANOTHER EXPERIENCE. AROUND LAST YEAR OF 2019 AROUND CHRISTMAS TIME MY MOM HAD PLANNED TO GO TO A BABY SHOWER TO ATTEND ON SATURDAY. I WAS SUPPOSE TO PICKED UP FROM.THE AIRPORT THAT SUNDAY AND MY SISTER HAD A DOCTORS APPOINTMENT THAT MONDAY AN MY DAD HAD TO WORK EVERYDAY AT 5 AM TO 12 AM AN THE AIRPORT WAS A WHILE AWAY. SO THIS AT LEAST A WEEK BEFORE AN NOT TO MENTION MY FLIGHT WAS CHANGED INTO MONDAY THE TIME OF MY SISTER DOCTORS APPOINTMENT. SO THERE IS THIS FAMILY STRESS NOW MOM HAD A SCHEDULE TO GO BY. ALSO MY SIBLINGS AREN'T IN SCHOOL THERE IS ON CHRISTMAS BREAK AN MY MOM STILL WORKS ONLINE AS TEACHER AN DOING A BUNCH OF GRADING SHE SCHEDULED TO DO. HOWEVER THEY WAS STRESSED OUT BECAUSE IT WAS A LATE NOTICE AN MY GRANDPARENTS WAS NOT OPEN TO WATCH THEM BECAUSE THEY WORKED THEMSELVES. ITS MORE TO THE STORY BUT THAT’S THE POINT OF FAMILY STRESS WHEN YOUR PLANS GETTING INTERFERED WITH OTHERS OR DELAYS ANN YOUR PLANS DON’T GO AS PLANNED BECAUSE OTHERS THINGS COME UP.IT CAN TAKE A TOLL ON OTHER MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY AN EVERYONE PANIC AN BE DISCOURAGED.MANY EXPERIENCES IN LIFE HAVE TAUGHT THAT FAMILY STRESS WILL MAKE LIFE MOPPY AN MISERABLE BECAUSE THEY NOT ABLE TO ENJOY THE THING THEY HAD PLANNED. BECAUSE DISTRACTED BY OTHER SITUATIONS IN LIFE OR UPCOMING AN SEEKING HOW TO MAKE A DECISION THAT WILL BENEFIT YOU AN YOUR FAMILY WHAT WILL BWE UNDERSTOOD WHY AN WILL NOT CREATE PROBLEMS WITHIN THE FAMILY. THERE IS ANOTHER THING WERE FAMILY STRESS IS CREATED WHEN OUR PEERS HAVE DEPRESSION AN WE DON’T KNOWING HOW TO COPE WITH THAT AN SEEK TO BE HAPPY DESPITE THE PROBLEM. THAT CAN BE UPSETTING BECAUSE WHAT MAKE THEM HAPPY MIGHT NOT MAKE US HAPPY AT THE TIME. MAKING BAD DECISIONS CAN CREATE FAMILY STRESS HOW THEY LOOKED AT AN HOW THEY CAN OVERCOME THAT DECISION AN HOW IT HAS EFFECTED THEM AS WHOLE AN THE WORRY ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF THEM AN HOW WILL THEY BE ABLEW TO LIVE WITHOUT BEING TOUCHED OR  LOOKED AT BECAUSE OF THAT MISTAKE OR DECISION. FAMILY STRESS CAN BE UNEXPECTED TIMES AN MY ADVICE TO THE ONES THAT SEE THIS IS THAT JUST DO THE BEST YOU CAN NEVER GIVE UP TOUGH TIKMES DON’T LAST LONG.