Communication

TODAY I WILL BE TALKING ABOUT COMMUNICATION AND MUTAUL PROBLEM SOLVING. THE WAY WE TALK AND CONVERSATE WITH FRIENDS, SPOUSES AND FAMILY IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO BE UNDERSTOOD. COMMUNICATION SKILLS ARE BEING ABLE TO CONVERSATE EFFECTIVELY IS PERHAPS THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL LIKE SKILL IN MY OPINION. COMMUNICATION ENABLES US TO PASS INFORMATION AN THOUGHTS OR CONCLUSION AND THEORIES TO OTHER PEOPLE AROUND US. TOAYS WORLD ARE AREN'T REALLY SURE HOW COMMUNICATION WORKS IN MANY WAYS JUST NOT VERBALLY TALKING COMMUNICATION INVOLVES BODY LANGUAGE AN FACAIL EXPRESSIONS AS WELL. ALSO THE PITCH OF VOICE, TONE IT AND SOFT SKILLS.ANOTHER KEY TO BECOME A VAILD COMMUNICATOR IS TO BECOME A GREAT LISTENER. BEING AN ACTIVE LISTENER AND PAYING CLOSE ATTENTION . ALSO YOU ARE CLARIFYING THE AMBIGUTIES ARE ALSO KEY BECAUSE YOU SEE THE OTHER PERSON POINT OF VIEW OF THE TOPIC OF THE CONVERSATION OR FEELING. ALSO LISTING IS VERY FAIR BECAUSE WHEN BOTH TALK ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS TOWARDS SOMETHING YOU WANT THEM TO HEAR YOU SO WHY NOT HEAR THEM SO THINGS CAN BE UNDERSTOOD AND NOT ASSUMED A MISCONCEIVED. WITHOUT LISTENING WE DON’T HEAR ANYTHING SO THERE FOR WE ASSUME WHAT MIGHT BE SAID OR WAS. HOWEVER I JUST SHARED THE MOST TWO IMPORTANT THINGS THAT HELP ME BECOME A BETTER COMMUNICATOR, ALSO UNDERSTANDING WHY IT WAS IMPORTANT THEN AND STILL IMPORTANT NOW. WITHOUT SHARING YOUR INSIGHT AN FEELING NOBODY WILL NEVER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL OR EITHER UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR FEELING. AN HOW SMEONE IS GOING TO LISTEN IF YOU DON’T SAY WORDS SO HOW DOES THAT WORK IF YOU KNOW HOW LET ME KNOW IM LISTENING. I FOUND IT BETTER TO COMMUNICATE WITH PEOPLE NO MATTER WHAT BECAUE EVERYONE HAVE SOMETHING OFFER IN A POSITIVE WAY.I BECAME A BETTER LISTENER BY KNOWING WHAT IM RESPONDING TO OR HOW THE OTHER PERSON FEELING. NOW I WILL SWITCH GEARS A BIT TO TOUCH UP ON MUTAUL PROBLEM SOLVING WHICH CONNECT WITH COMMUNICATION. IF WE COMMUNICATE AN GET AN UNDERSTANDING WHY DID THE PROBLEM BECOME A PROBLEM INSTEAD OF A SITUATION. WE OFTEN SOMETIMES JUST SEEK OUR POINT OF VIEW WITH MANY SITUATION, SUCH AS WHY MEN SHOULDN’T HAVE FEMALES FRIENDS WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE. WELL I MIGHT HAVE A DIFFERENT THOUGHT ABOUT THAT AND MY GIRLFRIENDS MIGHT HAD A DIFFERENT THOUGHT ABOUT THAT AS WELL. THAT’S DOSENT MEAN WE DON’T HAVE TO CREATE THAT INTO A FUSS OR A PROBLEM THETY WAY WE CAN SOLVE THAT IS JUST NECESSARILY CONVERSATE ABOUT THE PROS AN CONS AN COME TO A MUTUAL AGREEMENT AN NOT JUST ONE SIDED BECAUSE THAT’S CREATE CONFUSION. I BELIVE THAT’S WHY A LOT OF COUPLES FALL INTO THIS WHOLE OF POWER IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU HAVE THAT ONE TIME THEY MAKE THE DECISION AN YOU GO ALONG WITH IT TO AVOID CONFLICT OR SO FORTH SO THATS WHEN THEY GET AHEAD OF THEMSELVES IM TALKING IN THIRD PERSON BECAUSE IT HAPPENED TO ME. MUTAUL PROBLEM SOLVING IS STRATEGY OF DOING WHATS BEST FOR YOU BOTH INSTEAD OF JUST ONE BECAUSE WE ALL HAVE FEELINGS ABOT THINGS THAT DOSENT GO OUR WAY AT SOME POINT BUT WHEN WE TALK IT OUT AN UNDERSTAND WHAT EACH OTHER IS SAYING OR FEEL ABOUT IT IS A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OVERALL. ASLO WE SHOULD KEEP IN MND THAT DON’T BE THE PROBLEM TO PROBLEM BECAUSE IF SO, IT WILL NEVER GET SOLVED. ALSO RESPECT OTHERS THOUGHTS IN A MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP ETC. IT IS IMPORTANT BECAUSE WHEN WE COMMUNICATION ABOUT OUR THOUGHTS THAT YOU MIGHT NOT UNDERSTAND WE LISTING MORE TO UNDERSTAND AN AFTER THAT YOU COME TO A MUTAUL AGREEMENT TO SOLVE A SO CALLED PROBLEM OR DISAGREEMENT. THANK YOU ENJOY VONNY